Driver’s Ed: Why Your Libido is Like a Car
When we come at libido from the point of view that it's a drive (like our desire for food or water, and our need for sleep are drives) and combine it with dominant and stereotypical ideas about libido in society around us (he likes it often, her not so much, there's less of it after babies etc) we can set ourselves up to feel really down about ourselves when sex doesn't flow, like maybe there's something wrong with us.
Instead of having these as our predominant understanding of libido, the brake and accelerator model allows us to understand libido from the lens of our own experience and what does and doesn't work specifically for us.
You can then adapt your libido to suit changing circumstances in your life by tweaking the interplay between your brakes and accelerators.
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